Mental Humility: Embrace Inner Peace and Strength Through Humility
- Wioleta Kapusta
- 52 minutes ago
- 3 min read
Mental Humility
We tend to believe that humility is our weakness and not strength.
This potentially was brought by your environment that when you didn’t speak up as an authoritarian woman you were losing.
Your earliest environment was way too often turning that authoritarian had power over you and you were powerless.
What if this belief was passed from generation to generation based on survival?
What if humility is true strength that many don’t understand?
What is possible when you choose to experience more humility and start to believe that it is your strength?
I also believed humility to be the weakness and lack of power.
It was based on the generational upbringing rooted in survival.
My authoritarian was my father who treated my humble mother badly by constantly judging her for her choices from life to simple daily choices.
Even though I knew it was bad I did not want to end up like my submissive mother who felt she cannot stand up to her husband.
My young mind in survival was determined to mimic the judgmental behavior of my father so he was in acceptance of me and not picking on me.
It became such second nature to me that even though I no longer wanted to be accepted by my father by being a judgmental person I also did not know who I was without being authoritarian.
My hubby had a taste of my authoritarian nature daily.
Experiencing more humility came in my forties when I couldn’t fight any more with that survival mode.
My teenage daughter chose to break this survival and judgmental cycle and cut the ties with me.
I was initially losing how this ungrateful child could do such a thing to me.
As a parent it was also a nightmare not knowing where my child was and if she was ok.
Eventually I came to realize that I had to face myself and to drop the authoritarian in me and find my inner peace if I ever wanted to see my child again.
It wasn’t easiest to accept humility as my strength.
When I experienced the true power of being humble, I was more ready to bring more humility to my life.
I was able to reconnect with me, God and my daughter and I consider that as one of my biggest blessings.
I even was able to develop a better and more authentic and loving relationship with my daughter, hubby, father and mother.
It is an ongoing journey of embodying and shifting my mindset to more humility with understanding that I can experience more of my true power with it.
Even better, I can share my humility with others.
The greatest gift is that I have a better idea who I am.
I trust that humility and being yourself are important for you, especially in mid age when your power is rising and you want to use it for good and to make a real difference in this world.
I strongly feel that co-creation in a conscious comm-unity of mastering our hearts can help a lot with imm-unity to outside disconnect by being authoritarian and can develop a deeper connection within and your power source and with others.
This is the true legacy about making a true difference for ourselves and others.
It is to step fully into the best version of you and show to others it is possible for them as well.
I am pretty sure you want to experience living your legacy and not just potentially leaving one behind.

If you intuitively know that this might be a great place for you to truly expand and co-create together, reach out and explore together if we are matched in heaven.
Let's connect to Expand our Presence ✨
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